Hello, Friends! I am doing an extra Grave Spotlight for Black History Month because I ran across this fascinating woman. Now, I am going to add in some content warnings here because some of this may be hard to read, so here we are:
CONTENT WARNING: This posts discusses slavery and abuse. I will be using the terms that are noted in her own history and the articles that I have found about her. Just because I am using these terms, does NOT mean that I condone any of the things that happened to her. This is history. We can't change the past, but we can change the future.
Today we are going to take a look at the extremely long life of Sarah "Sally" Hafford, also known as Granny Hafford. Sarah Hafford was born into slavery in what is now Richmond, Virginia somewhere around 1795. This date varies depending on what article you read, anywhere from 1788 to 1798, but 1795 seems to be the most commonly used. She said in an interview that she didn't remember the year, but she remembered the date as being July 4.
She was born into slavery along the James River, near Richmond, Virginia. The name of her first owner was likely Colonel Archer Fletcher who owned property near Macon, Georgia. She remembered the name of another owner as being William Wilson, also named in some articles as Billie. She stated that he was the butler of George Washington and that he was a "bad master and did much whipping, producing scars" which she still carried until the day she died.
I haven't been able to find a Colonel Archer Fletcher anywhere in records for the time period. I did, however, find a Colonel Fletcher Harris Archer that fits in the time frame. He was a confederate soldier in Georgia, born in 1817 and passing away in 1902. I will not go into anymore information about him, as I don't know if this is correct or not. I also can't find a William Wilson who was a butler to George Washington.
At age eleven, she was sold to William Hicks for $600 and taken away to Georgia. This took her away from her family, who she never saw again. I don't know how long she was in Hicks' household before she was sold again to Daniel Bushem, who she called a "good master". A year later, she was sold again, this time to Joe Adkins of South Carolina for $770. She recalled that he was "only a moderately good master". Two years later, she found herself sold to James Martin of North Carolina for $600 and a "drove of hogs". Next, she was sold off to Tom Teague for $700. Of Teague, she recalled he "never undertook to whip [me] but once, and failed. [I] whipped him."
I have found no information for any of the above men, nor for the below George Hafford.
Sometime before 1850, she was sold a final time to George Hafford, hence her last name, as it was normal for slaves to take their master's last names. He purchased her for $777. Things get a lazy hazy here, because Sarah remembers him living near Monticello, Kentucky, but the census from the time shows that he resided in Haywood County, Tennessee and then in Lauderdale County Tennessee in 1860. Sarah is shown in the census records for 1850, but not in 1860.
While in his household, she married on of his other slaves. Unfortunately, we have no information on his name, but we do know that she had either 17 or 19 children, 5 of whom died in childhood and one was forcibly taken from her. This child was taken from her arms by an unknown man who claimed "I have bought her". Sarah never saw the child again. Ten of her other children were lost to her when they were sold. She also lost her husband, who was sold to another slaveowner after he objected to being whipped. He was never seen again, though Sarah does note that she heard from him after the Civil War, finding that he was married and living in Georgia with his wife and two children.
Sarah was freed from the household of George Hafford in 1863 and she ended up in Bloomington, Indiana in 1874. She came to live with her daughter, Mrs. Aaron Gahn, and her son Robert Moses Hafford, whose grave has only recently been rediscovered at Rose Hill Cemetery.
In 1896, at the age of 103, she was said to have been living in a small log cabin, tending to her little peach orchard. In 1900, the census showed that she lived with her daughter Elizabeth "Betsey" Caldwell and three of her grandchildren somewhere in Bloomington Township. By 1910, she was residing at the Monroe County Poor Farm, located in what is now Karst Farm Park, along with her daughter Elizabeth and two children named Henry and Sallie. This census record shows her age being 115.
Sarah died two years later on February 18, 1912, at the age of 117, at the home of her daughter Josephine Wilson. Her funeral took place at the Eighth Street Baptist Church and she was buried in an unmarked grave at Rose Hill Cemetery.
Her age comes into question in a few places, being noted as 112, 116, 120 and 123, though it was definite that she was very probably the oldest woman in the United States when she died.
Granny Hafford watched so much history happen around her, born into circumstances that she had no control over and finding herself a free woman so many years later. I can't imagine what her life must have been like. The stories that she had to tell.
She does not have a headstone in Rose Hill Cemetery as of yet. I hope that someday she will. She deserves to be remembered as much as anyone else.
Thank you Granny Hafford for your amazing life. Rest in Peace.
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RESOURCES:
Monroe County History Center - February March 2018 Newsletter
WikiTree - Sarah (Unknown) Hafford
Mounty County Timeline - Most Significant Events in Topic "African Americans"